The actual origin of this tradition is somewhat uncertain, but clearly remains a wedding "must-have". Once a simple record of signatures gathered in a somewhat nondescript book placed at the church or reception has evolved and is now seen as another opportunity to add distinctive flare.
The standard Guest Book remains a very popular option and is now available in an almost endless range of styles and prices. Many Brides are selecting a Cover Design that will be in keeping with their wedding theme in order to coordinate all of the décor elements throughout the day. Inside pages pre-printed with headings, generally guiding guests to sign not only their names but also special thoughts. The longstanding tradition of signing the Guest Book with a Plume Pen in more recent years has decreased in popularity. In its place are beautiful desk pens available in a wide range of styles, many of which designed to match the Guest Book itself and add glamour to the table display.
In an effort to allow Guests the freedom to expand their messages, some couples are electing to use a book with blank pages throughout. "Well Wishing Cards" have also evolved to accommodate more extensive greetings. Guests are asked to record their thoughts onto these small note cards or directly onto the blank pages. Completed cards are deposited in a decorative receptacle in keeping with the décor. Another option would be to create "Well Wishing" cards that include a decorative ribbon allowing them to be tied to a stylish tree or branch.
In some cases, couples are encouraging guests to be creative with their greetings. All confirmed attendees are sent a sheet of card stock paper with the instructions to write a poem, draw a picture, or share words of wisdom . . . whatever they choose. Guests are asked to bring their completed pages to the wedding at which time they are compiled into a "Wedding Guest Book" like no other.
Similarly, a "Message Centre" can be set up in a suitable location at the Reception. Equipped with paper, coloured markers, scissors and scrap booking embellishments, guests are invited to visit the center throughout the event to create an artistic message for the happy couple. Later it is compiled into a Memory Book that can be cherished for a lifetime.
Another idea is to have guests sign their names directly onto a tablecloth using a permanent fabric marker. Following the wedding, these signatures can be enhanced with hand embroidery if desired. The resulting table linen will be a wonderful keepsake and perfect for special occasion such as Anniversaries and Baby Showers.
For those that prefer pictures, Photo Guest Books have become a very interesting option. These can be created using a variety of strategies. One possibility is to ensure each table is provided with a sheet of suitable paper. Have all the guests seated at each table sign their names along with a brief message on the reverse side of the sheet. Ensure that each table grouping is photographed at some point during the reception. Once the images are developed, mount the appropriate photograph on the front side so that it coordinates with the signatures on the back. Or, using a Polaroid camera, photograph all guests as they arrive at the reception or set up a designated area for just this purpose. Guests can be photographed in couples or family groupings. Mount the images in a suitable album and have guests sign adjacent to their picture. Small "Well Wishing" Cards also are ideal and can be tucked into a pocket situated below each photograph.
Regardless how you choose to format your "Guest Book" you will thoroughly enjoy looking back and recalling all those that were able to share in this very happy day!
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